Workshops & Speaking

​I can bring any of my workshops or lectures to you, your group or University, and if requested, integrate it with your specific theme. Whether it's a casual women's night about sex toys and oral sex, to a class on male and female pleasure at a sex shop, to a workshop on body image and sexuality to college students, or even a multi-day sensuality intensive at a retreat, I can tailor the experience to your needs. The length of all workshops and lectures are approximately 75 - 90 minutes, but can be tailored to your needs. 

Big, Beautiful Sex: Sex & Body Image


Who says you have to be skinny* to have the best sex of your life? Whether it’s media and advertising images of “perfect” bodies or snarky comments about our weight, fat-shaming is all around us, and it can get in the way of our sexual confidence and pleasure. In this workshop, which combines lecture and discussion, I will talk about attitudes (both external and internal) that can hold us back from great sex and specific challenges we face as plus-sized lovers. You will learn skills – from communication tools to the best toys, techniques and positions – to help you embrace your sexuality and have big, beautiful sex.    90 min. w/ Q&A


* Appropriate for anyone with any type of body image issues regardless of size.


Coming soon: Big, Beautiful Sex: Dating & Big, Beautiful Sex: The Book












Do you love giving head?

Do you relish eating out at the "Y"?

Are you curious about new & inventive ways to pleasure a penis?


Nowadays, most of us learn our 'blow or mow' techniques from porn, and let's face it, that's just not practical.  In this fun and informal class, we’ll spend some time talking about your biggest penile and pussy pet peeves and how to solve them. You’ll be shown some basic pleasure-focused anatomy, given easy tips to make oral sex enjoyable for  of you, and maybe a couple of tricks or two to render your partner speechless. I'll be your oral sex sherpa, with suggestions on how you can enjoy and perhaps even look forward to oral sex. In this class you’ll re-learn what you’ve picked up along the way, gain some additional skills, and leave with a renewed interest and a better understanding for pleasing your partner's pussy or penis. 90 min. w/ Q&A












Lick by Lick, Blow by Blow: Oral Sex for Everyone

Blow 'em Away: Fearless Fellatio

Do you marvel at other people who love giving head? 

Does your partner expect you to perform like a porn star?

Would you describe yourself as a "blow-job-a-phobic?" 

Do you avoiding sucking it off, and then count the minutes until it's over?

Do you wish you had a great friend to show you how to pleasure a penis AND possibly enjoy it?


Let me make you laugh and put your mind at ease, while we spend some time talking about your biggest penile pet peeves and how to solve them. I'll introduce you to a different way of thinking about the blow-job that might even make the most fearful fellatiophobes look forward to it. During this conversational class, which includes Q&A, I’ll encourage you to reframe how you think about giving head, and re-acquire cock-sucking skills with a new appreciation for why oral sex can be so satisfying for both the receiver AND the giver. I'll cover some simple pleasure-focused anatomy, pass on seductive steps for sucking him off sensually, and send you off with streamlined techniques that will render him speechless.  (no nudity)
90 min w/ Q&A





Mutual Masturbation: Give Yourself a Hand!


Woody Allen once said, "Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love."

Even if you're satisfied with your solo play, wouldn't it be nice to have new and exciting techniques to try and put a little spark back into your relationship - with you? Statistically speaking, most of us go through life pleasuring ourselves the same way we have since we discovered self-stimulation
But, what if you wanted to try new things, vary it a bit or even do it with a partner? Where do you start? How do you approach it? What toys can you get to enhance your experience?

Look no further. All those questions will be answered and more in this unique and entertaining workshop


Through lecture and (PG) demonstration, you will learn:

• Some steamy, sexy “hands on” techniques

• How solo and partnered play creates an erotic and satisfying main event relationship
• How toys and accessories can accentuate and enliven your sex life


So, sit back, relax, and take in the new skills and tips that will re-energize your relationship with yourself! 

(no nudity)  90 min. w/ Q&A


Sex Myth Busting: Shattering Sexual Tall Tales

Ever listened to someone else tell you their bedroom stories, and thought to yourself “Is that for real?” or “How is that even possible?” In this workshop, I'll dish out the truth, debunk the myths, and spell out how to make the impossible actually achievable and fun! I’ll tell you what’s real, what’s not, how to enjoy things you never thought you could, and why it’s okay if things just aren’t realistic for you (hint: the phrase “cup of tea” will be used). This interactive workshop will include plenty of time for questions and the option to ask them anonymously.  90 miin. w/ Q&A

Butt Plugs, Vibtators and Dildos, Oh My!

Want to upgrade from your bullet vibe but are overwhelmed with all the choices?Like the idea of a dildo, but confused with where to start?The thought of a butt plug tantalizes you, but too shy to investigate?
In this light and entertaining, demo driven class, join sex educator & sex toy expert, Elle Chase, as she guides you down the yellow brick road of pleasure products. She'll cover and explain:
• The ins and outs of what toys are great for a variety of different play
• Why toys made with body safe materials are worth the price
• What kind of toys the future will bring• products for men and women
• How to tell if a toy is worth the price & why sometime you get what you pay for
• How some items you may have in your own home can become sex toys
• The "dos and don'ts" of toy safety and proper care
• Demos of the latest and greatest toys on the market and which are worth your attention
• The five items that couples should always have in their nightstand.   90 min. w/Q&A


The Art of Touch: Restoring Intimate Connection

In a rut with your partner? Need to shake things up? Feel like sex has become rote or unconnected?


Perhaps the kids have gone off to college, your life has been affected by illness,  major life events, or a demanding job? All of these reasons and more, can impact your ability to remain present during sex. Whether you’ve just re-entered the dating world or want another tool to strengthen the closeness in your relationship, this class is for you.


Through lecture and (PG) demonstration, you will learn:


• "Hands on” techniques that will curl your partner's toes

• Simple and painless communication skills

• The 3 most effective ways to create instant intimacy

• How non-penetrative sex can satiate even the most amped up lover

• How toys and accessories can revitalize a stalled or rote sex life

• How to gain a better understanding of your dynamic, sensual baseline


This class will encourage you to discover and explore new areas of your sexual appetite, safely while working at your most comfortable pace. Whatever your sexual identity or gender preference, new lovers, experienced lovers and novices alike, will learn a new (or improved) trick or two to add to their sexual repertoire.   (no nudity)   90 min. w/Q&A

Your Sensual Self: Unleashing Your Inner Sex Siren

What brings out your inner sex kitten?  We often use the words “sexy” and “sensual” interchangeably, but they mean very different things. Our personal sensuality can be analogous to the style of our inherent sexiness. I believe, if sex is food, then sensuality is the flavor. Personalizing our sensuality can imbue us with confidence, show us a different way to view and interact with the world, and of course, add a richer level to sex and seduction.


In this class, there will be fun exercises intended to make you more aware of your own sensual intuition. I'll show you sensuous arousal techniques and toys, and we will discuss how paying attention to your personal sensuality can refine intimacy, be a roadmap toward more sexual confidence, and get you started on the path to (re) defining and cultivating your own unique, sensual self.       

Dating for the Modern Man

Emails, texting,  sexting, hook-ups, online  dating, social media ... this is how we expect to first communicate with a potential date or partner. These are all great techniques in and of themselves, but courtship through technology has left us craving in person, human interaction. When was the last time you made your date swoon? There's something to be said for the ancient art of courtship, when we beguiled the object of our affection and piqued their curiosity, interest and attention. Using tried and true techniques, updated for the modern man, I'll show you the best ways to access your inner gentleman. You'll learn how to develop your personal artistry for breaking the ice, wooing and seduction while remaining true to yourself and completely honest with your date.        





For anyone who’s heard about the Kamasutra, the ancient eastern art of love-making, and has been daunted by the complexities of this practice. you might want to consider trying your hand at intimate massage.


The art of intimate massage is about sensuality, eroticism and the ability to give and receive pleasure without the expectation of reciprocation. The goal of this ancient, tantric practice, is not to bring your partner to orgasm, but rather to let them relax, be in the moment and be the receiver of pleasure. For the giver, the goal is to become more in tune with your partner's responses to touch and their manifestations of excitement.  


This specific erotic exercise is perfect for strengthening the intimacy between familiar lovers or building intimacy between new ones. However, intimate massage can also be a sexy and scintillating new way to begin or end a special occasion or just pick up a couple of tips to add a unique, relaxing and steamt experience to your sexual repertoire. (no nudity)  90 min. w/ Q&A








Intimate Massage for Building Heat and Connection

What people are saying about Elle Chase's Workshops

"We had the pleasure of hosting Lady Cheeky's Big Beautiful Sex workshop at Pleasure Chest LA. The class was well attended and received great reviews! Her approach is accessible, entertaining and unique. Not only is she an amazing educator but the process of working with her before and after the workshop was professional and easy."


- Kristen Tribby, Director of Creative Development and Strategy

The Pleasure Chest Stores

"Elle is talking about things no one else is and in doing so opening up the conversation to make room for everyone! Her experience and compassion make her able to create the safe spaces students need to learn and explore things they previously thought were out of their reach."



- JoEllen Notte 

Educator | Writer | Consultant

"I had the pleasure of working with Elle Chase for one of my sex ed websites, and I'd hire her again any day of the week. When she shows up Elle brings professionalism, expert knowledge and a cheerful nature. Regardless of why you might be thinking of working with Elle, do it."



-Kali Williams, Founder