I can bring any of my workshops or lectures to you, your group or University, and if requested, integrate it with your specific theme. Whether it's a casual women's night about sex toys and oral sex, to a class on male and female pleasure at a sex shop, to a workshop on body image and sexuality to college students, or even a multi-day sensuality intensive at a retreat, I can tailor the experience to your needs.
Big, Beautiful Sex: Sex & Body Image
"We had the pleasure of hosting Lady Cheeky's Big Beautiful Sex workshop at Pleasure Chest LA. The class was well attended and received great reviews! Her approach is accessible, entertaining and unique. Not only is she an amazing educator but the process of working with her before and after the workshop was professional and easy."
- Kristen Tribby, Director of Creative Development and Strategy
The Pleasure Chest Stores
Who says you have to be skinny* to have the best sex of your life? Whether it’s media and advertising images of “perfect” bodies or snarky comments about our weight, fat-shaming is all around us, and it can get in the way of our sexual confidence and pleasure. In this workshop, which combines lecture and discussion, I will talk about attitudes (both external and internal) that can hold us back from great sex and specific challenges we face as plus-sized lovers. You will learn skills – from communication tools to the best toys, techniques and positions – to help you embrace your sexuality and have big, beautiful sex.
* Appropriate for anyone with any type of body image issues regardless of size.
Coming soon: Big, Beautiful Dating & Big, Beautiful BDSM
"Elle is a warm and captivating speaker. Her enthusiasm for her subject matter shines and she brings so much fun to topics like sexual self-esteem, aging, and body image. I can't wait to see her present again!"
- Kate McCombs, MPH
Sex Educator, Writer
Conscious Coupling: Strengthening Intimate Connection
In a rut with your partner? Need to shake things up? Feel like sex has become rote or unconnected? Perhaps the kids have gone off to college or your life has been affected by illness, life events, or a demanding job? All of these reasons and more can impact your ability to remain present during sex. Even if you've just started dating again or want another tool to strengthen the closeness in your relationship ... this class is for you.
Casual or long-term relationships of all kinds will benefit from new skills or from re-framing old ones. We'll talk about how solo and partnered play is an erotic activity that's not only smokin’ hot, but can intimately connect you with your partner, whether you’ve been together 20 years or 20 minutes.
Through lecture and demonstration, I will illustrate some steamy, sexy “hands on" techniques, simple commnication skills and show you the 3 most effective ways to create instant intimacy. I will show you how making an intimate connection (not necessarily penetrative sex) your goal, creates an erotic and satisfying main event. We'll look at how toys and accessories can accentuate and enliven your relationship, and how reawakening your sex drive continues to build, bringing you and your partner more sexual pleasure and a better understanding of their sensual baseline.
This class will encourage you to discover and explore new areas of your sexual appetite, safely while working with your most comfortable pace. Whatever your sexual identity or gender preference, new lovers, experienced lovers and novices alike, will learn a new (or improved) trick or two to add to their sexual repertoire.
"How do you thank someone who has taken you from self-hatred to self-acceptance and love? I don’t know, but I owe a debt of gratitude to Elle Chase for all her work in the area of size positive sexuality and for her support of me and my dreams. She made me feel as if I didn’t need to shy away from my desires—that not only was it okay for me to want a sex life as a large woman, but that I should demand it. Through her work, I learned that it was okay for me to be myself as I am right now, and that I shouldn’t wait until I’m thin to achieve my goals."
- Christine Schoenwald, Writer ChristineSchoenwaldWriter.com
The Flavor of Sex: Sensuality and Female Desire
"Elle is talking about things no one else is and in doing so opening up the conversation to make room for everyone! Her experience and compassion make her able to create the safe spaces students need to learn and explore things they previously thought were out of their reach."
- JoEllen Notte
Educator | Writer | Consultant
What brings out your inner sex kitten? We often use the words “sexy” and “sensual” interchangeably, but they mean very different things. Our personal sensuality can be analogous to the style of our inherent sexiness. I believe, if sex is food, then sensuality is the flavor. Personalizing our sensuality can imbue us with confidence, show us a different way to view and interact with the world, and of course, add a richer level to sex and seduction.
In this class, there will be fun exercises intended to make you more aware of your own sensual intuition. I'll show you sensuous arousal techniques and toys, and we will discuss how paying attention to your personal sensuality can refine intimacy, be a roadmap toward more sexual confidence, and get you started on the path to (re) defining and cultivating your own unique, sensual self.
"I had the pleasure of working with Elle Chase for one of my sex ed websites, PassionateU.com and I'd hire her again any day of the week. When she shows up Elle brings professionalism, expert knowledge and a cheerful nature. Regardless of why you might be thinking of working with Elle, do it."
-Kali Williams, Founder
Online Dating for the Clueless
The Lost Art of Courtship
The Art of Seduction
The New Sexual Self: Curating Your Own Sexual Journey
Sexual Communication for Great Sex
Sex Toys 101: “Help! I’m in a Sex Shop! Now What Do I Do?”
Lick by Lick, Blow by Blow: Oral Sex for Everyone
Sex Education for Dummies: Learn What You Think You Already Know
Lingam (Penis) Massage for Deeper Intimacy
Smut For Smarties: Using Porn and Erotica to Enhance Your Sex Life
Sex in the Empty Nest: Rebuilding Intimacy after 40
Other Workshops & Talks Available
What people are saying about Elle Chase's Workshops
”I felt empowered …”
“.... Elle Chase (Lady Cheeky) was engaging,funny, informative, and had the attendees eating out of her hand."
”More classes like this!”
"This workshop reminded me to stay open."
"The free 'Resources Guide' she gives out is indispensible!"
”I only wish the class was longer.”
”(Elle Chase) was awesome, informative and the workshop was amazing.”