Bacon, Linda. Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth about Your Weight. Dallas, TX: BenBella, 2008. Print.

Baker, Jes. Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living. Seal Press: n.p., 2015. Print.

Batts, Carlos. Fat Girl. Los Angeles: Rare Bird, 2013. Print.

Blank, Hanne. Big Big Love: A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them. Emeryville, CA: Greenery, 2000. Print.

Blank, Hanne. The Unapologetic Fat Girl’s Guide to Exercise and Other Incendiary Acts. Berkeley: Ten Speed, 2012. Print.

Brach, Tara. Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha. New York: Bantam, 2003. Print.

Brown, Brené. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. New York, NY: Gotham, 2012. Print.

Brown, Brené. The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are. Hazelden; 1 edition: n.p., 2010 Print.

Brown, Brené. I Thought It Was Just Me (but It Isn’t): Telling the Truth about Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power. New York: Gotham, 2008. Print.

Brown, Harriet. Body of Truth: How Science, History, and Culture Drive Our Obsession with Weight–and What We Can Do about It. Da Capo Lifelong Books; Reprint edition.: n.p., 2016 Print.

Brumfitt, Taryn. Embrace: My Story from Body Loather to Body Lover. Paperback. New Holland Australia. May 1, 2015. Print
Bussel, Rachel Kramer. Curvy Girls: Erotica for Women. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Cohen, Alan. Why Your Life Sucks: And What You Can Do about It. San Diego, CA: Jodere Group, 2002. Print.

Cole-Whittaker, Terry. What You Think of Me Is None of My Business. New York: Jove, 1988. Print.

Fleming, Lauren Marie. Bawdy Love: 10 Steps to Profoundly Loving Your Body. 1st ed. Bordista Media, 2015 Print.  

Friedman, Jaclyn, and Jessica Valenti. Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power & a World without Rape. Seal Press.: n.p., 2008 Print.

Gibbons, Brittany. Fat Girl Walking: Sex, Food, Love, and Being Comfortable in Your Skin– Every Inch of It. Dey Street Books; Reprint edition: n.p., 2015 Print.

Harding, Kate, and Marianne Kirby. Lessons from the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body. New York: Perigee Book, 2009. Print.

Hay, Louise L. Love Your Body: A Positive Affirmation Guide for Loving and Appreciating Your Body. London: Hay House, 1989. Print.

Kotkin, Alex, #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book – Edited by Lady Cheeky, New York, SheVibe Studios, 2016. Print.

Kotkin, Alex, #NSFW Totally Curvy Coloring Book – Edited by Lady Cheeky, New York, SheVibe Studios, 2017. Print.

Madsen, Pamela. Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure … and Somehow Got Home in Time to Cook Dinner. Emmaus, PA: Rodale, 2011. Print.

Miller, Kelsey. Big Girl: How I Gave up Dieting and Got a Life. Grand Central Publishing.: n.p., 2016 Print.

Molinary, Rosie. Beautiful You: A Daily Guide to Radical Self-acceptance. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2010. Print.

Molinary, Rosie. Hijas Americanas: Beauty, Body Image, and Growing Up Latina Seal Press; annotated edition edition May 10, 2007. Print

Nimoy, Leonard. The Full Body Project. New York: Five Ties, 2007. Print.

Sicero, Jen. You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life. Running Press; 1 edition. April 23, 2013. Print

Tovar, Virgie. Hot & Heavy: Fierce Fat Girls on Life, Love & Fashion. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Valenti, Jessica. Sex Object: A Memoir. Dey Street Books, 2016 N.p.: n.p.,Print.

Wann, Marilyn. Fat! So?: Because You Don’t Have to Apologize for Your Size!Berkeley, CA: Ten Speed, 1998. Print.

Weinstein, Rebecca Jane. Fat Sex: The Naked Truth. N.p.: Createspace Independent Pub., 2012. Print.

West, Lindy. Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman. Hachette Books.: n.p., 2016. Print.

Williamson, Marianne. A Woman’s Worth. New York: Random House, 1993. Print.

Wolf, Naomi. The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used against Women. New York: W. Morrow, 1991. Print.

Wolf, Naomi. Vagina: A New Biography. New York, NY.: Ecco, 2012. Print.

Ziel, Cornelia Van Der, and Jacqueline Tourville. Big, Beautiful & Pregnant. New York: Marlowe, 2006. Print.

Boston Women’s Health Collective. Our Bodies, Ourselves: A New Edition for a New Era. Touchstone, New York. 2005.

Haines, Staci. The Survivor’s Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse. Cleis Press, San Fransisco. 1999  

Kaufman, Miriam. Cleis Press. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness. 2007.  

Ontario Gay Men’s HIV Prevention Strategy. Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Transmen and the Men Who Dig Them (link downloads free copy). 2007.

Zilbergeld, B. The New Male Sexuality: The Truth About Men, Sex, and Pleasure. Bantam. 1999.  



Block, Jenny. O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm. San Francisco: Cleis, 2015. Print.

Carrellas, Barbara. Ecstasy Is Necessary: A Practical Guide. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, 2012. Print.

Carrellas, Barbara. Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts, 2007. Print.

Corinna, Heather. S.E.X., Second Edition: The All-You-Need-To-Know Sexuality Guide to Get You Through Your Teens and Twenties. 2nd ed. N.p.: Da Capo Lifelong, 2016. Print.

Daedone, Nicole. Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm. New York: Grand Central Life & Style, 2011. Print.

Dodson, Betty. Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving. New York: Crown Trade Paperbacks, 1996. Print.

Doolittle, Ducky. Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered. New York: Carroll & Graf, 2006. Print.

Friedman, Jaclyn. What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-free Guide to Sex and Safety. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2011. Print.

Glickman, Charlie, and Aislinn Emirzian. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2013. Print.

Hartley, Nina, and I. S. Levine. Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex. New York: Avery, 2006. Print.

Hasler, Nikol, and Michael Capozzola. Sex: An Uncensored Introduction. San Francisco: Zest, 2015. Print.

Herbenick, Debby. Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction. Emmaus, PA: Rodale, 2009. Print.

Herbenick, Debby, and Vanessa Schick. Read My Lips: A Complete Guide to the Vagina and Vulva. Lanham: Rowman & Littlefield, 2011. Print.

Horn, Tina. Sexting: The Grownup’s Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digitally. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2016. Print.

Jaiya. Sex Positions You Never Thought Possible: The Creators of the Liberator Wedge Show You the Secrets of the Angles and Inclinations for the Deepest, Most Orgasmic Sex Ever. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2012. Print.

Joannides, Paul, and Dærick Gross. Guide to Getting It On: A Book about the Wonders of Sex. Oregon: Goofy Foot, 2012. Print.

Katz, Shanna. Lesbian Sex Positions: 100 Passionate Positions from Intimate and Sensual to Wild and Naughty. Berkeley, CA}: Amorata, 2014. Print.

Kaufman, Miriam, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness. San Francisco: Cleis, 2003. Print.

Kerner, Ian. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. New York: Regan, 2004. Print.

Moon, Allison, and Kate Diamond. Girl Sex 101. Lunatic Ink: n.p., 2015 Print.

Murray, Rowena A. For Foxes’ Sake: Everything a Fox Needs to Know about Sex. Print ed. N.p.: Amazon Digital Services, 2016. Print.

Nagoski, Emily. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2015. Print.

Price, Joan. Naked at Our Age: Talking out Loud about Senior Sex. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Secrets of Great G-spot Orgasms and Female Ejaculation: The Best Positions and Latest Techniques for Creating Powerful, Long-lasting Full-body Orgasms. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 1998. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2012. Print.

Waxman, Jamye. Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation. Emeryville, CA: Seal, 2007. Print.

Waxman, Jamye, Emily Morse, and Benjamin Wachenje. Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight. San Francisco, CA: Weldon Owen, 2011. Print.

Winston, Sheri. Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. Kingston, NY: Mango Garden, 2010. Print.


Bornstein, Kate. A Queer and Pleasant Danger: The True Story of a Nice Jewish Boy Who Joins the Church of Scientology, and Leaves Twelve Years Later to Become the Lovely Lady She Is Today. N.p.: Beacon, 2013. Print.

Bornstein, Kate, and S. Bear Bergman. Gender Outlaws: The next Generation. Seal Press; Reprint edition :n.p., 2010 Print.

Bornstein – Gender Outlaw, on men women & the rest of us

Mock, Janet. Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & so Much More. Atria Books; Reprint edition : n.p., n 2014 Print.

Mr. Angel (documentary)

Whipping Girl by Julia Serano

Transgender Voices: Beyond Women & Men

She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders

My New Gender Workbook by Bornstein

Transgender Warriors



Bechdel, Alison. Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic. Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 2006. Print.

Donaghue, Chris. Sex Outside the Lines: Authentic Sexuality in a Sexually Dysfunctional Culture. BenBella Books: n.p., 2015 Print.

Goddard, Amy Jo. Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence. Avery.: n.p., 2015 Print.

Hills, Rachel. The Sex Myth: The Gap between Our Fantasies and Reality. Simon & Schuster : n.p., 2015 Print.

Michaels, Mark A., and Patricia Johnson. Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships. Cleis Press.: n.p., 2015 Print.

Perel, Esther. Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. New York: Harper, 2007. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 2008. Print.

Michaels, Mark A., and Patricia Johnson. Partners in Passion and Designer Relationships

The Clitoral Truth by Sarah Chalker

Sex From Scratch by Sarah Mirk



Blue, Violet. Best of Best Women’s Erotica 2. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 2010. Print.

Bussel, Rachel Kramer. Curvy Girls: Erotica for Women. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Bussel, Rachel Kramer., and Barbara Carrellas. The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2013. Print.

Caraway, Rose. The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica. Simon & Schuster: n.p., 2014. Print.

Nin, Anais. Delta of Venus. Erotica by Anais Nin. London: Allen, 1978. Print.

Réage, Pauline,  Story of O. Ballantine Books.: n.p., 2013 Print.

Roquelaure, A. N., Rice, Anne. The Sleeping Beauty Novels: The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty / Beauty’s Release / Beauty’s Punishment 1st (first): Plume Printing, 1999 Paperback

Taormino, Tristan. Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan, and Ali Liebegott. When She Was Good: Best Lesbian Erotica. Cleis Press.: Berkeley., 2014 Print.

Wright, Kristina. Best Erotic Romance of the Year. Berkeley: Cleis, 2015. Print.

Also, sites like;

Literotica –

Molly’s Daily Kiss –

Lush Stories –

Alt Sex Stories Text Repository –




Motif C-

Simply Be –

Additionelle –

Ashley Graham Collections –

Cool Gal Blue –

Full Beauty –

Curvy Couture –

Torrid –

ASOS – (Curve section)

Lane Bryant –

Pin-up Girl Clothing – (what our model is wearing in the book!)

Eloquii –

Full Beauty –

J. Jill –

Fashion to Figure –

Carmakoma –

Anna Scholz –

GS Loves Me/G-Style

Kiyonna –

Etsy –

Yours Clothing –

Avenue –

Ashely Stewart –

Jessica London –

Charlotte Russe –

ModCloth –

eShakti –

CP Shades –

Navajo –

Just Curves Activewear –

Forever21 –


Old Navy –

Tadashi Shoji – (designer)

Lee Lee Valise – (designer)

Marina Rinaldi – (designer)

Eileen Fisher – (designer)

Bare Necessities –

Deb Shops –

SWAK Designs –

Fashion to Figure –

Sydney’s Closet –

Casual Plus –

Sammy Dress –

Rainbow Shops –

DH Styles –

Plus Size Fix –

Red Dress NYC –

Agaci Store –

Dillards –

Target –

Nordstrom Online

Macy’s –

Pink Clove –

Wet Seal –

Gwynnie Bee – – plus size clothes to rent

H & M –

JC Penney –

Hack with Design House – www. (designer)

Rue 107 –

Curious Fancy –

Copper Union Apparel –

Universal Standard –

Zelie For She –

Zulily –

Mynt 1792 –

Jibri Online –

Evans USA –

Curvissa –

Embody Denim –

Harlow Store –

17 Sundays –

Reb Dolls –

Courtney Noelle –

Mona New York –

Smart Glamour –

Wole Designs –

Kohls –

Kristin Miles –

Catherines –

Society Plus –

Ulla Popken –

Lands End –

Ready to Stare –

Making It Big –

Chubby Cartwheels –


BooHoo –

Amazon –



Fig Leaves –

Adore Me –

Bare Necessities –

Hips and Curves –

Her Room –

Curvy Girl –

Bits of Lace –

Additionelle –

Lace –

Torrid –

Lane Bryant –

Ashley Stewart –

Elomi –

Breast Nest –

Soma –

Bigger Bras –

Big Gals Lingerie –

Les Love Boat – (chest binders)

Underworks – (chest binders)

About Curves –

Leslee Valise –

Adore Me –



Smart Glamour –

The Diva Kurves Collection –

Hey Gorgeous –

Simply Be –

Torrid –

Ashley Stewart –

ModCloth –

Pin-up Girl Clothing –

Forever 21 –

Target –

Swimsuits For All –




Fun Factory SHARE Double Dildo –

New York Toy Collective, Mason Dildo –

Njoy Pure Wand –

Njoy Fun Wand –

PleasureWorks, Admiral Dildo –

Tantus, Echo Handle –

Tantus, Feeldoe Double Dildo –

Tantus, G-Force Handle –

Tantus, Goddess Handle –

Clone-A-Willy –



SpareParts, Joque Harness (sizes up to 5x) –

SpareParts, Sasha Harness (sizes up to 5x) –

SpareParts, Bella Harness (sizes up to 5x) –

SpareParts, Tomboi Harness (sizes up to 5x) –

SportSheets, DIVINE DIVA Plus- Size Strap-On Harness (28′-82′)

Tantus Vibrating Velvet Harness (30’ – 60’) –

Spartacus Leather Ulti-Mate Harness in Large (30’ – 60’)  –

Aslan Leather, Minx Upgrade Leather Harness (30’ – 60’)  –

Aslan Leather, Pleasure Harness (30’ – 60’),

Harness Extender Strap –

Packers/Gender Identity

Pleasure Works, Sailor 1 Softskin Packer –

New York Toy Collective Archer Silicone Packer  –

New York Toy Collective Pierre Uncircumcised Silicone Packer –

Transform Full Triangle Breast Forms –

Body Perks Nipple Enhancers –

Props & Accessories

Liberator Ramp –

Liberator Wedge –

Liberator, Slingshot –

Sportsheets Penetration Station  –

Fetish Fantasy Door Swing –

Sportsheets, Door Jam Sex Sling –

Sportsheets Plus Size Doggy Strap –

Super Sex Sling –

Sybian –



Single Locking Suction Footrest (for the shower) –

Dual Locking Suction Handle (for the shower) –

Single locking Suction Handles –

Suction Hand-cuffs –

Also, check or medical supply sites for suction handles, bars and footrests. For the vibrator experience in the shower or in the tub, look for vibes that are waterproof, and there are plenty out there!



Sliquid Naturals Intimate Lubricants (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)-
Sliquid Naturals Organics Intimate Lubricants(Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)-
Pjur –
Please (liquid, cream or gel)

Flavored (water-based)

Sliquid Swirl – (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)

Wicked Sensual Care – (contains glycerin)


Sliquid Silver (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)-

Uberlube –

Pjur –

Please, Silicone –


Sliquid Silk (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)-

Sliquid Organics Natural Lubricating Silk (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)-

Ride Bodyworx Silk Hybrid Lube –

Oil-based (not safe with condoms)

Sliquid Soul Organic Coconut Oil Moisturizer –

Organic, Extra Virgin Coconut Oil (Get “fractionated” which just means it doesn’t harden – any supermarket or health food store

Sex Butter –

Sexual Health Products

Aneros EVI Kegel Exerciser –

Je Joue Ami Kegel Balls –

FC2 Female Condoms –

Okomoto .004 Latex Condoms –

ONE Condoms –

Skyn Non-latex Condoms –

Glyde Condoms (vegan & fair trade) –

Unique Condoms –

Oral Sex Dams –

Hot Dam Non-Latex Dental Dams –

K-Goal Smart Kegel Trainer –

JeJoue Ami Vaginal Exerciser Set –

Sliquid Balance Ph Neutral Intimate Wash –

Clone-A-Pussy –


Lady Cheeky – Sensual images and GIFS,

The Art of Blowjob – Sensual fellatio,

Adam & Eve TV, Couples porn, how-to,

Beautiful Agony – Authentic masturbation videos,

Bright Desire – Real couples,

Sexing the Transman – Transgender porn –

Candida Royalle/Femme Productions-  Feminist porn

Comstock Films – “Real” people sex,

CrashPad Series – Unique lesbian/queer porn,

Cyber-Dyke Network – Lesbian feminist porn,

For the Girls – Porn for women –

FattyD/April Flores – Plus sized porn,

Frolic Me – Erotic films, stills and stories for women and couples,

Gentleman Handling – Erotic male masturbation porn,

Good Dyke Porn™ – Lesbian feminist porn,

Good For Her – Feminist Porn, Porn for all sizes, home of the Feminist Porn Awards,

Good Vibrations Video On Demand – Feminist porn,

Here Art – Beautiful erotic films and stills. Best massage porn on the web.

Hot Movies For Her – Curated toward female led story lines,

Indigo Lush – Feminist Erotic Films,

I Shot Myself – Amateur, real people, diverse bodies –

I Feel Myself – Authentic masturbation videos,

Indie Porn Revolution – Queer porn,

Joymii – erotic movies for couples –

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex Plus Size – Sex Educator/Porn Star directs a How-To.

Produced by Wicked Pictures, 2014. Available at

JulieSimone – Fetish,

Lust Cinema – Home of award-winning erotic filmmaker Erika Lust,

Petra Joy – Sensual female-focused porn,

Pornographic Love – Sensual porn,

The Sex Positive Photo Project, erotic photos by Shilo McCabe,

Ssh – erotic content for women by women –

Sonic Erotica – audio sex (no video),

Tristan Taormino/Smart Ass Productions- Feminist porn/kink,

Trouble Films – Queer Porn,

T-Wood Productions – Queer & transgender porn,

Pink & White Productions –

Crash Pad Series –

Real World Porn – “Real” people sex

We Love Good Sex -Good porn, erotic videos and Eye candy from a girl’s point of view –

X-Art, “beautiful” porn, erotic –



I suggest checking out The Redhead Bedhead’s Superhero Sex Shop List – the internet’s most comprehensive listing of sex-positive retailers featuring more than 50 shops spanning the US and Canada


As You Like It – The Pleasure Shop –,  (541) 606-0553

1655 W 11th Ave #1 Eugene, OR 97402

A sex toy shop that sells; non-toxic, gender inclusive, body positive, sex positive, and environmentally conscious sexual health supplies and toys.

A Woman’s Touch,, 608- 250-1928

302 S Livingston St, Madison, WI 53703

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Babeland,, 1-866-525-1439

707 E Pike St., Seattle, Washington 98122

94 Rivington St., New York, New York 10002

43 Mercer St., New York, New York 10013

462 Bergen St, Brooklyn, New York 11217

Women-owned retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Center For Sexual Pleasure And Health,,  401-489-5513

Sex positive online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and educational materials.

Early To Bed,, 773-271-1219

5044 N. Clark St, Chicago, IL 60640

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Good Vibrations,, 1-800-289-8423

603 Valencia Street, San Francisco, CA 94110

1620 Polk Street, San Francisco, CA 94109

189 Kearny Street, San Francisco, CA 94108

899 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA 94103

2504 San Pablo Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94702

3219 Lakeshore Avenue, Oakland, CA 94610

534 Ramona Street, Palo Alto, CA 94301

308A Harvard St, Brookline, MA 02446

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, education and on-demand ethical porn.

Lotus Blooms,, 703-535-8225

1017 King St, Alexandria, VA 22314

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education. Great selection of plus size corsets.

Self Serve Toys –, (505) 265-5815

3904B Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108

Their mission? To end the shame and silence around sex, we aim to help people to see their bodies and desires as beautiful, sexual, positive, strong and healthy.

The Pleasure Chest,, 800-753-4536 (see my SEX EDUCATOR PAGE for my personal picks)

7733 Santa Monica Blvd, West Hollywood, CA 90046

3436 North Lincoln Avenue, Chicago, IL 60657

3023 N Broadway, Chicago, IL 60657

156 Seventh Avenue South, New York, NY 10014

1150 2nd Ave, New York, NY 10065

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education. I have my own educator page on the Pleasure Chest site with my recommendations.

Please New York,, 718-788-6969

557 5th Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11215

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and


She Bop,, 503-473-8018

909 N. Beech, Portland, OR, 97227

3213 SE Division Street, Portland, OR, 97202

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Smitten Kitten,, 612- 721-6088

3010 Lyndale Ave S, Minneapolis, MN 55408

Retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Sugar,, 410- 467-2632

1001 W 36th St, Baltimore, MD 21211

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

SHAG Brooklyn 347.721.3302

108 Roebling Street (@ North 6th Street)

Brooklyn, NY 11211

Carefully curated boutique with sexy accouterments. From bath & body products, to lingerie and sexy toys for all.

The Stockroom/Syren Fetish Fashion Boutique –,

(213) 989-0334

2809½ W. Sunset Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90026

Fetish wear and accoutrements, including plus-size latex outfits and other fetish wear.

Tool Shed,, 414-906-5304

2427 N Murray Ave, Milwaukee, WI 53211

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Venus Envy,, 877-370-9288

226 Bank Street, Ottawa ON K2P 1X1

1598 Barrington Street, Halifax NS B3J 1Z6

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Favorite Online-Only Retailers:

SheVibe – – You’ll find what you need that this fun, colorful and well-stocked site. Also the creator of the #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Books

LuckyBloke – – Only the best condoms, dams, lubes, sent to your home in sampler packs or all one brand. You choose!

Dallas Novelty – – Disabled owned and very inclusive they’re motto is “sex is for everybody!”  



Fat Friendly Health Providers List –

Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal –

About Relationships –

The Center For Sexual Pleasure and Health –

Kink Academy –

Society of Janus (BDSM) –

Kinsey Confidential –

Planned Parenthood –

San Francisco Sex Information –

Scarleteen –

Get Tested –

Bedsider – Information on birth control and emergency birth control –

CDC National Prevention Information Network

Women’s Health –

Abortion Clinics Online –

Center for Reproductive Rights –

Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network –


Options for Sexual Health –

National Domestic Violence Hotline –

America Sexual Health Association –

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance –

Naked at Our Age (sex & aging) –

The Clitoris – www.the-clitoris.c


Gay Men’s Health Crisis

International Foundation for Gender Education

American Institute of Bisexuality

Intersex Society of North America

Impact Program –

National LGBT Task Force

Gay, Lesbian Straight Education Network –

National Center fro Transgender Equality –


National Center for Lesbian Rights –

Gender Wellness of Los Angeles – (Trans-specific)


Advocates for Youth –


Community of LGBT Centers –

American Institute of Bi-sexuality –

The A-sexual Visabilty and Education Network –

Trans women Safer Sex Guide –

Black Girl Dangerous –


Sarah Plus Life –

The Militant Baker-

Queer Fat Femme –

Fat Girl Flow –

More to Love –

About Face –

The Adipose Advocate –

The Belly Project –

The Body Project –

The Body Positive –

Amy Pence-Brown –

Body Love 4 All –

elephant journal-

Dances with Fat-

Fat Chicks Rule-

Golda Poretsky’s Body, Love, Wellness-

The Good Men Project –

Love Your Body –

The Nu Project –

Persephone Magazine –

The Body Love Conference –

National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance –

Photographic Bodyweight / Height Chart –

Sex and the Fat Girl –

The Sex Positive Photo Project –

Streetsie –

Fat Activisim Conference –

The Body Positive –

Beauty Redefined –

Health AT Every Size –

Body Images Project –

My Body Gallery –

Endangered Bodies –

Body Image Movement –

Big Beautiful Wellnes –

Chubstr –

The Body Image Therapy Center (blog)-

Operation Beautful –

Camryn Moore –

Bridget Everett –

Curvy Yoga –

Virgie Tovar –

The Fat Heffalump –

Beauty Redefined –

Body sense –

The Body Image Project –

We Are The Real Deal –

The Body Image Movement –

Association for Size Diversity & Health –

Any Body –

Proud 2 Be Me



The Redhead Bedhead –

Hey Epiphora –

Dangerous Lilly –

Lorax of Sex –

Sunny Megatron –

Kitty Stryker – (nsfw)

A Couple of Kinks –

Naked at Our Age –

Marvelous Darling –

Oh Joy, Sex Toy –

Pucker-up –

Kate McCombs –

Kara Sutra –

Mama Sutra –

Smut for Smarties –

Tiny Nibbles –

A Femme Cock –

Formidable Femme –

The Big Gay Review –

The Black Pomagranate –

Sugar Cunt Writes –

Sexational –


Sarah Plus Life –

Queer Fat Femme –

The Adipositivity Project –

A Beautiful Body Project –

Stop Hating Your Body –

Dances With Fat –

Queer Fat Femme –

Plus Size Birth –

Sweet Amaranth –

Body Love Wellness –

The Militant Baker –

Virgie Tovar –

Saucye West –

Fuck Yeah Body Positivity –

Ravings by Rae –

More To Love –

Adios Barbie –

Musings of a Curvy Lady –

Feminist Cupcake –

The Curvy Fashionista –

Fat! So? –

The Writer Gurl –

Embrace Your Natural Beauty –

Fuck Yeah, Fat Positive –

Internal Acceptance Movement –

Fat People of Color –

Labia Library –

Plus Size Princess –

Let’s Queer Things Up –

Busty Girl Comics –

Fat Heffalump –

Body Positivity for Guys –

A Year Without Mirrors –

The Fat Chick –

Kimberly Dark –

Tiana Dodson –

Crip Confessions/Betheny Stevens –

(look for them on

Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

Sex Nerd Sandra on

Sex with Emily

Speaking of Sex – The Pleasure Mechanics

Unscrewed with Jaclyn Friedman

Kinsey Confidential

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

How We Talk About Sex

Life on the Swingset

New York Magazine’s Sex Lives

Why Are People Into That?

Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza

The Heart

Dear Sugar with Cheryl Strayed and Marc Almond

Modern Love

The Kiss Me Quick’s: Erotic Sex Stories by Rose Caraway

HuffPost Love & Sex

Polyamory Weekly

Intimate Chats with the Love Birds

The BodCast by Bustle

Bawdy Love Podcast


Tristan Taormino | |

Charlie Glickman, PhD | |

JoEllen Notte

Cyndi Darnell

Ducky Doolittle

Sunny Megatron

Dr. Emily Morse

Tina Horn

Lauren Marie Fleming

Emily Nagoski, PhD

Allison Moon

Buck Angel

Sex Nerd Sandra

Betty Dodson, PhD

Gina Ogden

Shanna Katz, M.Ed

Jamye Waxman

Rebecca Jane Weinstein

Mistress Simone

Ashley Manta

Dawn Serra

Megan Andelloux

Barbara Carrellas | Urban Tantra


Opening-up | The Open List –
The Open List is a list of professionals (therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors, relationship and life coaches, doctors, lawyers, mediators, and alternative healthcare providers) who are experienced and knowledgeable about alternative sexuality and lifestyles, open relationships, polyamory, nonmonogamy, swinging, as well as BDSM, kink, leather, LGBTQIA communities, and other sexual minorities.

Kink Aware Professionals

The Kink Aware Professionals Directory (KAP) is a service offered by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) dedicated to providing the community with a listing of psychotherapeutic, medical, legal and other professionals who have stated that they are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.