READING

Bacon, Linda. Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth about Your Weight. Dallas, TX: BenBella, 2008. Print.

Baker, Jes. Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living. Seal Press: n.p., 2015. Print.

Batts, Carlos. Fat Girl. Los Angeles: Rare Bird, 2013. Print.

Blank, Hanne. Big Big Love: A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them. Emeryville, CA: Greenery, 2000. Print.

Blank, Hanne. The Unapologetic Fat Girl’s Guide to Exercise and Other Incendiary Acts. Berkeley: Ten Speed, 2012. Print.

Brach, Tara. Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha. New York: Bantam, 2003. Print.

Brown, Brené. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. New York, NY: Gotham, 2012. Print.

Brown, Brené. The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are. Hazelden; 1 edition: n.p., 2010 Print.

Brown, Brené. I Thought It Was Just Me (but It Isn’t): Telling the Truth about Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power. New York: Gotham, 2008. Print.

Brown, Harriet. Body of Truth: How Science, History, and Culture Drive Our Obsession with Weight–and What We Can Do about It. Da Capo Lifelong Books; Reprint edition.: n.p., 2016 Print.

Brumfitt, Taryn. Embrace: My Story from Body Loather to Body Lover. Paperback. New Holland Australia. May 1, 2015. Print
Bussel, Rachel Kramer. Curvy Girls: Erotica for Women. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Cohen, Alan. Why Your Life Sucks: And What You Can Do about It. San Diego, CA: Jodere Group, 2002. Print.

Cole-Whittaker, Terry. What You Think of Me Is None of My Business. New York: Jove, 1988. Print.

Fleming, Lauren Marie. Bawdy Love: 10 Steps to Profoundly Loving Your Body. 1st ed. Bordista Media, 2015 Print.  

Friedman, Jaclyn, and Jessica Valenti. Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power & a World without Rape. Seal Press.: n.p., 2008 Print.

Gibbons, Brittany. Fat Girl Walking: Sex, Food, Love, and Being Comfortable in Your Skin– Every Inch of It. Dey Street Books; Reprint edition: n.p., 2015 Print.

Harding, Kate, and Marianne Kirby. Lessons from the Fat-o-sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body. New York: Perigee Book, 2009. Print.

Hay, Louise L. Love Your Body: A Positive Affirmation Guide for Loving and Appreciating Your Body. London: Hay House, 1989. Print.

Kotkin, Alex, #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book – Edited by Lady Cheeky, New York, SheVibe Studios, 2016. Print.

Kotkin, Alex, #NSFW Totally Curvy Coloring Book – Edited by Lady Cheeky, New York, SheVibe Studios, 2017. Print.

Madsen, Pamela. Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure … and Somehow Got Home in Time to Cook Dinner. Emmaus, PA: Rodale, 2011. Print.

Miller, Kelsey. Big Girl: How I Gave up Dieting and Got a Life. Grand Central Publishing.: n.p., 2016 Print.

Molinary, Rosie. Beautiful You: A Daily Guide to Radical Self-acceptance. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2010. Print.

Molinary, Rosie. Hijas Americanas: Beauty, Body Image, and Growing Up Latina Seal Press; annotated edition edition May 10, 2007. Print

Nimoy, Leonard. The Full Body Project. New York: Five Ties, 2007. Print.

Sicero, Jen. You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life. Running Press; 1 edition. April 23, 2013. Print

Tovar, Virgie. Hot & Heavy: Fierce Fat Girls on Life, Love & Fashion. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Valenti, Jessica. Sex Object: A Memoir. Dey Street Books, 2016 N.p.: n.p.,Print.

Wann, Marilyn. Fat! So?: Because You Don’t Have to Apologize for Your Size!Berkeley, CA: Ten Speed, 1998. Print.

Weinstein, Rebecca Jane. Fat Sex: The Naked Truth. N.p.: Createspace Independent Pub., 2012. Print.

West, Lindy. Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman. Hachette Books.: n.p., 2016. Print.

Williamson, Marianne. A Woman’s Worth. New York: Random House, 1993. Print.

Wolf, Naomi. The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used against Women. New York: W. Morrow, 1991. Print.

Wolf, Naomi. Vagina: A New Biography. New York, NY.: Ecco, 2012. Print.

Ziel, Cornelia Van Der, and Jacqueline Tourville. Big, Beautiful & Pregnant. New York: Marlowe, 2006. Print.

Boston Women’s Health Collective. Our Bodies, Ourselves: A New Edition for a New Era. Touchstone, New York. 2005.

Haines, Staci. The Survivor’s Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse. Cleis Press, San Fransisco. 1999  

Kaufman, Miriam. Cleis Press. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness. 2007.  

Ontario Gay Men’s HIV Prevention Strategy. Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Transmen and the Men Who Dig Them (link downloads free copy). 2007.

Zilbergeld, B. The New Male Sexuality: The Truth About Men, Sex, and Pleasure. Bantam. 1999.  

 

SEX / KINK EDUCATION & HOW TO

Block, Jenny. O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm. San Francisco: Cleis, 2015. Print.

Carrellas, Barbara. Ecstasy Is Necessary: A Practical Guide. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, 2012. Print.

Carrellas, Barbara. Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts, 2007. Print.

Corinna, Heather. S.E.X., Second Edition: The All-You-Need-To-Know Sexuality Guide to Get You Through Your Teens and Twenties. 2nd ed. N.p.: Da Capo Lifelong, 2016. Print.

Daedone, Nicole. Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm. New York: Grand Central Life & Style, 2011. Print.

Dodson, Betty. Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving. New York: Crown Trade Paperbacks, 1996. Print.

Doolittle, Ducky. Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered. New York: Carroll & Graf, 2006. Print.

Friedman, Jaclyn. What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-free Guide to Sex and Safety. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2011. Print.

Glickman, Charlie, and Aislinn Emirzian. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2013. Print.

Hartley, Nina, and I. S. Levine. Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex. New York: Avery, 2006. Print.

Hasler, Nikol, and Michael Capozzola. Sex: An Uncensored Introduction. San Francisco: Zest, 2015. Print.

Herbenick, Debby. Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction. Emmaus, PA: Rodale, 2009. Print.

Herbenick, Debby, and Vanessa Schick. Read My Lips: A Complete Guide to the Vagina and Vulva. Lanham: Rowman & Littlefield, 2011. Print.

Horn, Tina. Sexting: The Grownup’s Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digitally. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2016. Print.

Jaiya. Sex Positions You Never Thought Possible: The Creators of the Liberator Wedge Show You the Secrets of the Angles and Inclinations for the Deepest, Most Orgasmic Sex Ever. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2012. Print.

Joannides, Paul, and Dærick Gross. Guide to Getting It On: A Book about the Wonders of Sex. Oregon: Goofy Foot, 2012. Print.

Katz, Shanna. Lesbian Sex Positions: 100 Passionate Positions from Intimate and Sensual to Wild and Naughty. Berkeley, CA}: Amorata, 2014. Print.

Kaufman, Miriam, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness. San Francisco: Cleis, 2003. Print.

Kerner, Ian. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. New York: Regan, 2004. Print.

Moon, Allison, and Kate Diamond. Girl Sex 101. Lunatic Ink: n.p., 2015 Print.

Murray, Rowena A. For Foxes’ Sake: Everything a Fox Needs to Know about Sex. Print ed. N.p.: Amazon Digital Services, 2016. Print.

Nagoski, Emily. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2015. Print.

Price, Joan. Naked at Our Age: Talking out Loud about Senior Sex. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Secrets of Great G-spot Orgasms and Female Ejaculation: The Best Positions and Latest Techniques for Creating Powerful, Long-lasting Full-body Orgasms. Beverly, MA: Quiver, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 1998. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2012. Print.

Waxman, Jamye. Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation. Emeryville, CA: Seal, 2007. Print.

Waxman, Jamye, Emily Morse, and Benjamin Wachenje. Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight. San Francisco, CA: Weldon Owen, 2011. Print.

Winston, Sheri. Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. Kingston, NY: Mango Garden, 2010. Print.

GENDER

Bornstein, Kate. A Queer and Pleasant Danger: The True Story of a Nice Jewish Boy Who Joins the Church of Scientology, and Leaves Twelve Years Later to Become the Lovely Lady She Is Today. N.p.: Beacon, 2013. Print.

Bornstein, Kate, and S. Bear Bergman. Gender Outlaws: The next Generation. Seal Press; Reprint edition :n.p., 2010 Print.

Bornstein – Gender Outlaw, on men women & the rest of us

Mock, Janet. Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & so Much More. Atria Books; Reprint edition : n.p., n 2014 Print.

Mr. Angel (documentary)

Whipping Girl by Julia Serano

Transgender Voices: Beyond Women & Men

She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders

My New Gender Workbook by Bornstein

Transgender Warriors

 

SEXUALITY, SENSUALITY & RELATIONSHIPS

Bechdel, Alison. Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic. Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 2006. Print.

Donaghue, Chris. Sex Outside the Lines: Authentic Sexuality in a Sexually Dysfunctional Culture. BenBella Books: n.p., 2015 Print.

Goddard, Amy Jo. Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence. Avery.: n.p., 2015 Print.

Hills, Rachel. The Sex Myth: The Gap between Our Fantasies and Reality. Simon & Schuster : n.p., 2015 Print.

Michaels, Mark A., and Patricia Johnson. Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships. Cleis Press.: n.p., 2015 Print.

Perel, Esther. Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. New York: Harper, 2007. Print.

Taormino, Tristan. Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 2008. Print.

Michaels, Mark A., and Patricia Johnson. Partners in Passion and Designer Relationships

The Clitoral Truth by Sarah Chalker

Sex From Scratch by Sarah Mirk

 

EROTICA FAVORITES

Blue, Violet. Best of Best Women’s Erotica 2. San Francisco, CA: Cleis, 2010. Print.

Bussel, Rachel Kramer. Curvy Girls: Erotica for Women. Berkeley, CA: Seal, 2012. Print.

Bussel, Rachel Kramer., and Barbara Carrellas. The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2013. Print.

Caraway, Rose. The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica. Simon & Schuster: n.p., 2014. Print.

Nin, Anais. Delta of Venus. Erotica by Anais Nin. London: Allen, 1978. Print.

Réage, Pauline,  Story of O. Ballantine Books.: n.p., 2013 Print.

Roquelaure, A. N., Rice, Anne. The Sleeping Beauty Novels: The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty / Beauty’s Release / Beauty’s Punishment 1st (first): Plume Printing, 1999 Paperback

Taormino, Tristan. Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica. Berkeley, CA: Cleis, 2011. Print.

Taormino, Tristan, and Ali Liebegott. When She Was Good: Best Lesbian Erotica. Cleis Press.: Berkeley., 2014 Print.

Wright, Kristina. Best Erotic Romance of the Year. Berkeley: Cleis, 2015. Print.

Also, sites like;

Literotica – www.literotica.com

Molly’s Daily Kiss – www.mollysdailykiss.com

Lush Stories – www.lushstories.com

Alt Sex Stories Text Repository – www.asstr.org

 

PLUS SIZED FASHION WEBSITES

CLOTHING

Motif C- www.monific.com

Simply Be – www.simplybe.com

Additionelle – www.additionelle.com

Ashley Graham Collections – www.ashleygrahamcollections.com

Cool Gal Blue – www.coolgalblue.com

Full Beauty – www.fullbeauty.com

Curvy Couture – www.curvycouture.com

Torrid – www.torrid.com

ASOS – www.asos.com (Curve section)

Lane Bryant – www.lanebyrant.com

Pin-up Girl Clothing – www.pinupgirlclothing.com (what our model is wearing in the book!)

Eloquii – www.eloquii.com

Full Beauty – www.fullbeauty.com

J. Jill – www.jjill.com

Fashion to Figure – http://www.fashiontofigure.com/

Carmakoma – https://carmakoma.com

Anna Scholz – http://www.annascholz.com

GS Loves Me/G-Style www.gslovesme.com

Kiyonna – www.kiyonna.com

Etsy – www.etsy.com

Yours Clothing – www.yoursclothing.com

Avenue – www.avenue.com

Ashely Stewart – www.ashleystwert.com

Jessica London – www.jessicalondon.com

Charlotte Russe – www.charlotterusse.com

ModCloth – www.modcloth.com

eShakti – www.eshakti.com

CP Shades – www.cpshades.com

Navajo – www.navabi.us

Just Curves Activewear – http://justcurves.net

Forever21 – www.forever21.com

IGIGI – www.igigi.com

Old Navy – www.oldnavy.com

Tadashi Shoji – http://www.tadashishoji.com/ (designer)

Lee Lee Valise – http://www.leeleesvalise.com/ (designer)

Marina Rinaldi – http://world.marinarinaldi.com/ (designer)

Eileen Fisher – http://www.eileenfisher.com (designer)

Bare Necessities – http://www.barenecessities.com/

Deb Shops – http://www.debshops.com/

SWAK Designs – www.swakdesigns.com

Fashion to Figure – http://www.fashiontofigure.com

Sydney’s Closet – https://www.sydneyscloset.com/

Casual Plus – http://www.casual-plus.com/

Sammy Dress – http://www.sammydress.com

Rainbow Shops – http://www.rainbowshops.com

DH Styles – http://www.dhstyles.com/

Plus Size Fix – http://www.plussizefix.com/

Red Dress NYC – http://www.redressnyc.com/

Agaci Store – http://www.agacistore.com

Dillards – www.dillards.com

Target – www.target.com

Nordstrom Online www.nordstrom.com

Macy’s – www.macys.com

Pink Clove – www.pinkclove.co.uk

Wet Seal – www.wetseal.com

Gwynnie Bee – closet.gwynniebee.com – plus size clothes to rent

H & M – www.hm.com

JC Penney – www.jcpenney.com

Hack with Design House – www.http://hackwithdesignhouse.com (designer)

Rue 107 – www.rue107.com

Curious Fancy – www.curiousfancy.com

Copper Union Apparel – http://www.copperunionapparel.com/

Universal Standard – http://www.universalstandard.net/

Zelie For She – http://www.zelieforshe.com/

Zulily – www.zulily.com

Mynt 1792 – http://mynt1792.com/

Jibri Online – http://www.jibrionline.com

Evans USA – http://www.evansusa.com

Curvissa – http://www.curvissa.co.uk/

Embody Denim – https://www.embodydenim.com.au/

Harlow Store – https://www.harlowstore.com/

17 Sundays – http://www.17sundays.com/

Reb Dolls – http://rebdolls.com/

Courtney Noelle – http://www.shopcourtneynoelle.com/

Mona New York – http://yonanewyork.com/

Smart Glamour – http://www.smartglamour.com/

Wole Designs – http://www.woledesigns.com/

Kohls – www.kohls.com

Kristin Miles – http://www.kristinmiles.com

Catherines – http://catherines.lanebryant.com

Society Plus – http://society-plus.com

Ulla Popken – http://www.ullapopken.com

Lands End – www.landsend.com

Ready to Stare – http://www.readytostare.com/

Making It Big – http://www.makingitbig.com/

Chubby Cartwheels – https://www.chubbycartwheels.com/

SWAP – https://www.swap.com

BooHoo – http://www.boohoo.com/

Amazon – www.amazon.com

 

LINGERIE

Fig Leaves – www.figleaves.com

Adore Me – www.adoreme.com

Bare Necessities – www.barenecessities.com

Hips and Curves – www.higsandcurves.com

Her Room – www.herroom.com

Curvy Girl – www.curvygirlic.com

Bits of Lace – http://www.bitsoflace.com

Additionelle – www.additionelle.com

Lace – https://www.lace.com

Torrid – www.torrid.com

Lane Bryant – www.lanebryant.com

Ashley Stewart – www.ashleystewart.com

Elomi – www.elomi.com

Breast Nest – https://breastnest.com/

Soma – www.soma.com

Bigger Bras – www.biggerbras.com

Big Gals Lingerie – http://biggalslingerie.com/

Les Love Boat – http://www.lesloveboat.com (chest binders)

Underworks – http://www.underworks.com/ (chest binders)

About Curves – http://www.aboutcurves.com

Leslee Valise – http://www.leeleesvalise.com/

Adore Me – www.adoreme.com

 

SWIMWEAR

Smart Glamour – http://www.smartglamour.com

The Diva Kurves Collection – http://www.thedivakurvescollection.bigcartel.com/

Hey Gorgeous – http://www.heygorgeous.com/

Simply Be – www.simplybe.com

Torrid – www.torrid.com

Ashley Stewart – www.ashleystewart.com

ModCloth – www.modcloth.com

Pin-up Girl Clothing – www.pinupgirlclothing.com

Forever 21 – www.forever21.com

Target – www.target.com

Swimsuits For All – www.swimsuitsforall.com

 

CURVY GIRL APPROVED TOYS & PRODUCTS FOR CURVY BODIES

DILDOS

Fun Factory SHARE Double Dildo – https://us.funfactory.com

New York Toy Collective, Mason Dildo – www.newyorktoycollective.com

Njoy Pure Wand – www.njoytoys.com

Njoy Fun Wand – www.njoytoys.com

PleasureWorks, Admiral Dildo – www.goodvibrations.com

Tantus, Echo Handle – www.tantusinc.com

Tantus, Feeldoe Double Dildo – www.tantusinc.com

Tantus, G-Force Handle – www.tantusinc.com

Tantus, Goddess Handle – www.tantusinc.com

Clone-A-Willy – www.cloneawilly.com

 

HARNESSES

SpareParts, Joque Harness (sizes up to 5x) – www.myspare.com

SpareParts, Sasha Harness (sizes up to 5x) – www.myspare.com

SpareParts, Bella Harness (sizes up to 5x) – www.myspare.com

SpareParts, Tomboi Harness (sizes up to 5x) – www.myspare.com

SportSheets, DIVINE DIVA Plus- Size Strap-On Harness (28′-82′) www.sportsheets.com

Tantus Vibrating Velvet Harness (30’ – 60’) – www.tantusinc.com

Spartacus Leather Ulti-Mate Harness in Large (30’ – 60’)  – www.shopspartacus.com

Aslan Leather, Minx Upgrade Leather Harness (30’ – 60’)  – www.aslanleather.com

Aslan Leather, Pleasure Harness (30’ – 60’), www.aslanleather.com

Harness Extender Strap – www.thepleasurechest.com

Packers/Gender Identity

Pleasure Works, Sailor 1 Softskin Packer – www.goodvibrations.com

New York Toy Collective Archer Silicone Packer  – https://newyorktoycollective.com

New York Toy Collective Pierre Uncircumcised Silicone Packer – https://newyorktoycollective.com

Transform Full Triangle Breast Forms – www.thepleasurechest.com

Body Perks Nipple Enhancers – www.thepleasurechest.com

Props & Accessories

Liberator Ramp – www.liberator.com

Liberator Wedge – www.liberator.com

Liberator, Slingshot – www.liberator.com

Sportsheets Penetration Station  – wwwsportsheets.com

Fetish Fantasy Door Swing – www.shevibe.com

Sportsheets, Door Jam Sex Sling – www.sportsheets.com

Sportsheets Plus Size Doggy Strap – www.sportsheets.com

Super Sex Sling – www.sportsheets.com

Sybian – www.sybian.com

 

IN THE SHOWER

Single Locking Suction Footrest (for the shower) – www.sportsheets.com

Dual Locking Suction Handle (for the shower) – www.sportsheets.com

Single locking Suction Handles – www.sportsheets.com

Suction Hand-cuffs – www.sportsheets.com

Also, check Amazon.com or medical supply sites for suction handles, bars and footrests. For the vibrator experience in the shower or in the tub, look for vibes that are waterproof, and there are plenty out there!

 

LUBE

Water-based
Sliquid Naturals Intimate Lubricants (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)- www.sliquid.com
Sliquid Naturals Organics Intimate Lubricants(Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)- www.sliquid.com
Pjur – www.pjur.com
Please (liquid, cream or gel) www.goodvibrations.com

Flavored (water-based)

Sliquid Swirl – www.sliquid.com (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)

Wicked Sensual Care – www.wickedsensualcare.com (contains glycerin)

Silicone

Sliquid Silver (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)- www.sliquid.com

Uberlube – www.uberlube.com

Pjur – www.pjur.com

Please, Silicone – www.goodvibrations.com

Hybrid

Sliquid Silk (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)- www.sliquid.com

Sliquid Organics Natural Lubricating Silk (Vegan, glycerin & paraben free)- www.sliquid.com

Ride Bodyworx Silk Hybrid Lube – www.ridelube.com

Oil-based (not safe with condoms)

Sliquid Soul Organic Coconut Oil Moisturizer – www.sliquid.com

Organic, Extra Virgin Coconut Oil (Get “fractionated” which just means it doesn’t harden – any supermarket or health food store

Sex Butter – www.sexbutter.net

Sexual Health Products

Aneros EVI Kegel Exerciser – www.aneros.com

Je Joue Ami Kegel Balls – http://jejoue.com

FC2 Female Condoms – www.fc2.com

Okomoto .004 Latex Condoms – www.luckybloke.com

ONE Condoms – www.luckybloke.com

Skyn Non-latex Condoms – www.luckybloke.com

Glyde Condoms (vegan & fair trade) – www.luckbloke.com

Unique Condoms – www.luckbloke.com

Oral Sex Dams – www.luckybloke.com

Hot Dam Non-Latex Dental Dams – www.thepleasurechest.com

K-Goal Smart Kegel Trainer – www.minnalife.com

JeJoue Ami Vaginal Exerciser Set – www.jejoue.com

Sliquid Balance Ph Neutral Intimate Wash – www.sliquid.com

Clone-A-Pussy – www.cloneawilly.com

BODY POSITIVE/FEMINIST PORN

Lady Cheeky – Sensual images and GIFS,  www.ladycheeky.com

The Art of Blowjob – Sensual fellatio, theartofblowjob.com

Adam & Eve TV, Couples porn, how-to, www.adamandevetv.com

Beautiful Agony – Authentic masturbation videos, www.ifeelmyself.com

Bright Desire – Real couples,  brightdesire.com

Sexing the Transman – Transgender porn – http://sexingthetransman.com/

Candida Royalle/Femme Productions-  Feminist porn candidaroyalle.com/femme-catalogue

Comstock Films – “Real” people sex, www.comstockfilms.com

CrashPad Series – Unique lesbian/queer porn, crashpadseries.com

Cyber-Dyke Network – Lesbian feminist porn, www.cyber-dyke.net

For the Girls – Porn for women – www.forthegirls.com

FattyD/April Flores – Plus sized porn, www.fattyd.com

Frolic Me – Erotic films, stills and stories for women and couples, www.frolicme.com

Gentleman Handling – Erotic male masturbation porn, gentlemanhandling.com

Good Dyke Porn™ – Lesbian feminist porn, www.gooddykeporn.com

Good For Her – Feminist Porn, Porn for all sizes, home of the Feminist Porn Awards, www.goodforher.com

Good Vibrations Video On Demand – Feminist porn, www.goodvibrationsvod.com

Here Art – Beautiful erotic films and stills. Best massage porn on the web. http://www.hegre-art.com

Hot Movies For Her – Curated toward female led story lines, www.hotmoviesforher.com

Indigo Lush – Feminist Erotic Films, www.indigolush.com

I Shot Myself – Amateur, real people, diverse bodies – www.ishotmyself.com

I Feel Myself – Authentic masturbation videos, www.ifeelmyself.com

Indie Porn Revolution – Queer porn, indiepornrevolution.com

Joymii – erotic movies for couples – www.joymii.com

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex Plus Size – Sex Educator/Porn Star directs a How-To.

Produced by Wicked Pictures, 2014. Available at www.shevibe.com

JulieSimone – Fetish, www.juliesimone.com

Lust Cinema – Home of award-winning erotic filmmaker Erika Lust, www.lustcinema.com

Petra Joy – Sensual female-focused porn, www.petrajoy.com

Pornographic Love – Sensual porn, www.pornographiclove.com

The Sex Positive Photo Project, erotic photos by Shilo McCabe, www.thesexpositivephotoproject.com

Ssh – erotic content for women by women – www.ssh.com

Sonic Erotica – audio sex (no video), www.sonicerotica.com

Tristan Taormino/Smart Ass Productions- Feminist porn/kink, puckerup.com/feminist-porn/tristans-films

Trouble Films – Queer Porn, troublefilms.com

T-Wood Productions – Queer & transgender porn, www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/?studio=t-wood

Pink & White Productions – pinkwhite.biz

Crash Pad Series – www.crashpadseries.com

Real World Porn – “Real” people sex

We Love Good Sex -Good porn, erotic videos and Eye candy from a girl’s point of view – www.welovegoodsex.com

X-Art, “beautiful” porn, erotic – http://www.x-art.com/

 

BODY & SEX POSITIVE ADULT SHOPPING

I suggest checking out The Redhead Bedhead’s Superhero Sex Shop List – the internet’s most comprehensive listing of sex-positive retailers featuring more than 50 shops spanning the US and Canada

www.redheadbedhead.com/superhero-sex-shops

 

As You Like It – The Pleasure Shop – www.asyoulikeitshop.com,  (541) 606-0553

1655 W 11th Ave #1 Eugene, OR 97402

A sex toy shop that sells; non-toxic, gender inclusive, body positive, sex positive, and environmentally conscious sexual health supplies and toys.

A Woman’s Touch, sexualityresources.com, 608- 250-1928

302 S Livingston St, Madison, WI 53703

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Babeland, www.babeland.com, 1-866-525-1439

707 E Pike St., Seattle, Washington 98122

94 Rivington St., New York, New York 10002

43 Mercer St., New York, New York 10013

462 Bergen St, Brooklyn, New York 11217

Women-owned retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Center For Sexual Pleasure And Health, shopthecsph.org,  401-489-5513

Sex positive online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and educational materials.

Early To Bed, early2bedshop.com, 773-271-1219

5044 N. Clark St, Chicago, IL 60640

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Good Vibrations, www.goodvibes.com, 1-800-289-8423

603 Valencia Street, San Francisco, CA 94110

1620 Polk Street, San Francisco, CA 94109

189 Kearny Street, San Francisco, CA 94108

899 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA 94103

2504 San Pablo Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94702

3219 Lakeshore Avenue, Oakland, CA 94610

534 Ramona Street, Palo Alto, CA 94301

308A Harvard St, Brookline, MA 02446

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, education and on-demand ethical porn.

Lotus Blooms, www.lotusblooms.com, 703-535-8225

1017 King St, Alexandria, VA 22314

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education. Great selection of plus size corsets.

Self Serve Toys – www.selfservetoys.com, (505) 265-5815

3904B Central Ave SE, Albuquerque, NM 87108

Their mission? To end the shame and silence around sex, we aim to help people to see their bodies and desires as beautiful, sexual, positive, strong and healthy.

The Pleasure Chest, thepleasurechest.com, 800-753-4536 (see my SEX EDUCATOR PAGE for my personal picks)

7733 Santa Monica Blvd, West Hollywood, CA 90046

3436 North Lincoln Avenue, Chicago, IL 60657

3023 N Broadway, Chicago, IL 60657

156 Seventh Avenue South, New York, NY 10014

1150 2nd Ave, New York, NY 10065

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education. I have my own educator page on the Pleasure Chest site with my recommendations.

Please New York, www.pleasenewyork.com, 718-788-6969

557 5th Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11215

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and

education.

She Bop, www.sheboptheshop.com, 503-473-8018

909 N. Beech, Portland, OR, 97227

3213 SE Division Street, Portland, OR, 97202

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Smitten Kitten, www.smittenkittenonline.com, 612- 721-6088

3010 Lyndale Ave S, Minneapolis, MN 55408

Retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Sugar, www.sugartheshop.com, 410- 467-2632

1001 W 36th St, Baltimore, MD 21211

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

SHAG Brooklyn 347.721.3302 www.weloveshag.com

108 Roebling Street (@ North 6th Street)

Brooklyn, NY 11211

Carefully curated boutique with sexy accouterments. From bath & body products, to lingerie and sexy toys for all.

The Stockroom/Syren Fetish Fashion Boutique – www.stockroom.com,

(213) 989-0334

2809½ W. Sunset Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90026

Fetish wear and accoutrements, including plus-size latex outfits and other fetish wear.

Tool Shed, www.toolshedtoys.com, 414-906-5304

2427 N Murray Ave, Milwaukee, WI 53211

Women-owned retail and online store featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Venus Envy, venusenvy.ca, 877-370-9288

226 Bank Street, Ottawa ON K2P 1X1

1598 Barrington Street, Halifax NS B3J 1Z6

Sex positive retail and online stores featuring toys, books, videos, safer sex supplies, and education.

Favorite Online-Only Retailers:

SheVibe – www.shevibe.com – You’ll find what you need that this fun, colorful and well-stocked site. Also the creator of the #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Books

LuckyBloke – www.luckybloke.com – Only the best condoms, dams, lubes, sent to your home in sampler packs or all one brand. You choose!

Dallas Novelty – www.dallasnovelty.com – Disabled owned and very inclusive they’re motto is “sex is for everybody!”  

 

SEXUAL HEALTH & LIFESTYLE RESOURCES

Fat Friendly Health Providers List – http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/

Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal – www.cyndidarnell.com

About Relationships – sexuality.about.com

The Center For Sexual Pleasure and Health – www.thecsph.org

Kink Academy –  www.kinkacademy.com

Society of Janus (BDSM) – http://www.soj.org

Kinsey Confidential – kinseyconfidential.org

Planned Parenthood – www.plannedparenthood.org

San Francisco Sex Information – www.sfsi.org

Scarleteen – www.scarleteen.com

Get Tested – gettested.cdc.gov

Bedsider – Information on birth control and emergency birth control – www.bedsider.com

CDC National Prevention Information Network https://npin.cdc.gov/

Women’s Health – http://www.womenshealth.gov

Abortion Clinics Online – https://abortionclinics.com/

Center for Reproductive Rights – http://www.reproductiverights.org/

Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network – https://www.rainn.org/

CDC https://www.cdc.gov/sexualhealth/

Options for Sexual Health – www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/

National Domestic Violence Hotline – http://www.thehotline.org

America Sexual Health Association – http://www.ashasexualhealth.org

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance – www.woodhullallaince.org

Naked at Our Age (sex & aging) – http://www.joanprice.com/

The Clitoris – www.the-clitoris.c

LGBTQ SEXUAL HEALTH

Gay Men’s Health Crisis http://gmhc.org/

International Foundation for Gender Education http://ifge.org/

American Institute of Bisexuality bisexual.org

Intersex Society of North America  http://isna.org/

Impact Program – http://www.impactprogram.org

National LGBT Task Force  http://www.thetaskforce.org/

Gay, Lesbian Straight Education Network – http://www.glsen.org/

National Center fro Transgender Equality – http://www.nctequality.org/

LAMBDA Legal http://www.lambdalegal.org/

National Center for Lesbian Rights – http://www.nclrights.org/

Gender Wellness of Los Angeles – Genwell.org (Trans-specific)

APAIT – www.apaitonline.org

Advocates for Youth – http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/

GLAAD – http://www.glaad.org/

Community of LGBT Centers – www.outrightinternational.org

American Institute of Bi-sexuality – https://bisexual.org/

The A-sexual Visabilty and Education Network – http://www.asexuality.org/home/

Trans women Safer Sex Guide – www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/

Black Girl Dangerous – http://www.blackgirldangerous.org/

BODY POSITIVE WEBSITES

Sarah Plus Life – http://www.sarahpluslife.com/

The Militant Baker- www.themilitantbaker.com

Queer Fat Femme – www.queerfatfemme.com

Fat Girl Flow – http://www.fatgirlflow.com/

More to Love – http://www.moretolovewithrachel.com/

About Face – www.about-face.org

The Adipose Advocate – adiposeactivist.wordpress.com

The Belly Project – thebellyproject.wordpress.com

The Body Project – thebodyproject.bradley.edu

The Body Positive – http://www.thebodypositive.org/

Amy Pence-Brown – www.amypencebrown.com

Body Love 4 All – http://www.bodylove4all.org/

elephant journal- www.elephantjournal.com

Dances with Fat- danceswithfat.wordpress.com

Fat Chicks Rule- fatchicksrule.blogs.com

Golda Poretsky’s Body, Love, Wellness- www.bodylovewellness.com

The Good Men Project – goodmenproject.com

Love Your Body – loveyourbody.nowfoundation.org

The Nu Project – www.thenuproject.com

Persephone Magazine – persephonemagazine.com

The Body Love Conference – http://www.bodyloveconference.com/

National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance – http://www.naafaonline.com/dev2

Photographic Bodyweight / Height Chart – www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.html

Sex and the Fat Girl – www.sexandthefatgirl.com

The Sex Positive Photo Project – www.thesexpositivephotoproject.com

Streetsie – www.streetsie.com

Fat Activisim Conference – fatactivismconference.com

The Body Positive – www.thebodypositive.org

Beauty Redefined – http://www.beautyredefined.org/

Health AT Every Size – http://www.haescommunity.org/

Body Images Project – http://azjsphotography.wixsite.com/the-body-images

My Body Gallery – http://www.mybodygallery.com/

Endangered Bodies – http://www.endangeredbodies.org/

Body Image Movement – bodyimagemovement.com

Big Beautiful Wellnes – http://bigbeautifulwellness.com/

Chubstr – http://chubstr.com/

The Body Image Therapy Center (blog)- http://thebodyimagecenter.com/

Operation Beautful – http://www.operationbeautiful.com/

Camryn Moore – http://www.camerynmoore.com/

Bridget Everett – www.bridgeteverett.net

Curvy Yoga – http://www.curvyyoga.com/

Virgie Tovar – www.VirgieTovar.com

The Fat Heffalump – www.fatheffalump.wordpress.com

Beauty Redefined – http://www.beautyredefined.net/

Body sense – http://bodysense.ca/

The Body Image Project – http://thebodyimageproject.blogspot.com/

We Are The Real Deal – http://wearetherealdeal.com

The Body Image Movement – http://bodyimagemovement.com.au/

Association for Size Diversity & Health – https://www.sizediversityandhealth.org/

Any Body – http://www.any-body.org/

Proud 2 Be Me http://proud2bme.org/

 

SEX BLOGS

The Redhead Bedhead – www.redheadbedhead.com

Hey Epiphora – www.heyepiphora.com

Dangerous Lilly – www.dangerouslilly.com

Lorax of Sex – www.loraxofsex.com

Sunny Megatron – www.sunnymegatron.com

Kitty Stryker – kittystryker.com/blog (nsfw)

A Couple of Kinks – www.acoupleofkinks.com

Naked at Our Age – www.joanprice.com

Marvelous Darling – marvelous-darling.com

Oh Joy, Sex Toy – www.ohjoysextoy.com

Pucker-up – www.puckerup.com

Kate McCombs – www.katemccombs.com

Kara Sutra – www.karasutrareviews.com

Mama Sutra – www.mamasutra.com

Smut for Smarties – www.ellechase.com

Tiny Nibbles – www.tinynibbles.com

A Femme Cock – www.afemmecock.com

Formidable Femme – www.formidablefemme.com

The Big Gay Review – www.thebiggayreview.com

The Black Pomagranate – http://theblackpomegranate.com/

Sugar Cunt Writes – www.sugarcuntwrites.com

Sexational – www.sex-ational.com

BODY POSITIVE BLOGS

Sarah Plus Life – www.sarahpluslife.com

Queer Fat Femme – www.queerfatfemme.com

The Adipositivity Project – http://www.adipositivity.com/

A Beautiful Body Project – http://www.abeautifulbodyproject.org/

Stop Hating Your Body – www.stophatingyourbody.tumblr.com

Dances With Fat – https://danceswithfat.wordpress.com/

Queer Fat Femme – http://queerfatfemme.com/

Plus Size Birth – http://plussizebirth.com/

Sweet Amaranth – http://blog.sweetamaranth.com/

Body Love Wellness – http://www.bodylovewellness.com/

The Militant Baker – www.themilitantbaker.com

Virgie Tovar – http://www.virgietovar.com/blog

Saucye West – www.saucyewest.com

Fuck Yeah Body Positivity – fuckyeahbodypositivity.tumblr.com/

Ravings by Rae – http://ravingsbyrae.com/

More To Love – http://www.moretolovewithrachel.com/

Adios Barbie – www.adiosbarbie.com

Musings of a Curvy Lady – www.musingsofacurvylady.com

Feminist Cupcake – https://feministcupcake.wordpress.com/

The Curvy Fashionista – www.thecurvyfashionista.com

Fat! So? – http://www.fatso.com/

The Writer Gurl – http://www.wr1tergurl.com/

Embrace Your Natural Beauty – http://embraceyournaturalbeauty.tumblr.com/

Fuck Yeah, Fat Positive – http://fuckyeahbodyimage.tumblr.com/

Internal Acceptance Movement – http://internal-acceptance-movement.tumblr.com/

Fat People of Color – http://fatpeopleofcolor.tumblr.com

Labia Library – http://www.labialibrary.org.au/

Plus Size Princess – http://plussizeprincess.com/

Let’s Queer Things Up – https://letsqueerthingsup.com/

Busty Girl Comics – http://bustygirlcomics.com/

Fat Heffalump – https://fatheffalump.wordpress.com/

Body Positivity for Guys – http://bodypositivityforguys.tumblr.com/

A Year Without Mirrors – http://www.ayearwithoutmirrors.com/

The Fat Chick – http://www.thefatchick.com/

Kimberly Dark – www.kimberlydark.com

Tiana Dodson – www.tianadodson.com

Crip Confessions/Betheny Stevens – http://cripconfessions.com/

BODY POSITIVE LOVE, SEX & SEXUALITY
PODCASTS & RADIO SHOWS
(look for them on iTunes.com)

Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

Sex Nerd Sandra on Nerdist.com

Sex with Emily

Speaking of Sex – The Pleasure Mechanics

Unscrewed with Jaclyn Friedman

Kinsey Confidential

Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra

How We Talk About Sex

Life on the Swingset

New York Magazine’s Sex Lives

Why Are People Into That?

Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza

The Heart

Dear Sugar with Cheryl Strayed and Marc Almond

Modern Love

The Kiss Me Quick’s: Erotic Sex Stories by Rose Caraway

HuffPost Love & Sex

Polyamory Weekly

Intimate Chats with the Love Birds

The BodCast by Bustle

Bawdy Love Podcast

RECOMMENDED EDUCATOR’S WEBSITES

Tristan Taormino

www.tristantaormino.com | www.puckerup.com | www.openingup.net

Charlie Glickman, PhD

www.charlieglickman.com | www.makesexeasy.com |

JoEllen Notte

www.theredheadbedhead.com

Cyndi Darnell

www.cyndidarnell.com

Ducky Doolittle

www.duckydoolittle.com

Sunny Megatron

www.sunnymegatron.com

Dr. Emily Morse

www.sexwithemily.com

Tina Horn

http://whyarepeopleintothat.com/

Lauren Marie Fleming

http://laurenmariefleming.com/

Emily Nagoski, PhD

http://www.thedirtynormal.com

Allison Moon

http://www.talesofthepack.com/

Buck Angel

www.buckangel.com

Sex Nerd Sandra

www.sexnerdsandra.com

Betty Dodson, PhD

www.dodsonandross.com

Gina Ogden

www.GinaOgden.com

Shanna Katz, M.Ed

www.shannakatz.com

Jamye Waxman

www.jamyewaxman.com

Rebecca Jane Weinstein

http://www.rebeccajaneweinstein.com/

Mistress Simone

http://www.chicago-mistress.com/

Ashley Manta

www.AshleyManta.com

Dawn Serra

www.dawnserra.com

Megan Andelloux

http://www.ohmegan.com/

Barbara Carrellas | Urban Tantra
www.barbaracarrellas.com

SEX & BODY POSITIVE COACHES & MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS

Opening-up | The Open List – http://openingup.net/open-list/
The Open List is a list of professionals (therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors, relationship and life coaches, doctors, lawyers, mediators, and alternative healthcare providers) who are experienced and knowledgeable about alternative sexuality and lifestyles, open relationships, polyamory, nonmonogamy, swinging, as well as BDSM, kink, leather, LGBTQIA communities, and other sexual minorities.

Kink Aware Professionals

https://ncsfreedom.org

The Kink Aware Professionals Directory (KAP) is a service offered by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) dedicated to providing the community with a listing of psychotherapeutic, medical, legal and other professionals who have stated that they are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.